Friday, February 15, 2013

幸福的秘訣

◎信任對方 

不信任對方,經常以懷疑的口吻盤問對方,這種互相猜度的愛情就只有分手下場。
既然跟他一起,就應該完全信任對方,縱然已婚,也應 給予對方應有自由及保持秘密的權利,不要常懷疑對方有東西隱瞞你,要對愛人有信心!


◎關心對方

關心的程度正好表現你對對方的重視程度,間中打個電話給對方關心式問候一句:你很工作很辛苦嗎?
又或者傳呼他說:天氣涼了,請加衣。這些關心未必有實際用途,但起碼能令對方暖在心頭,工作或不在一起時 ,
不妨多想念對方,間中致電或傳呼他說句很掛念你,必能對方甜在心頭,更起勁地工作。 



◎接納對方

兩個人一起,必須互相遷就。記著,你愛他,就必須接受他的一切 ,甚至缺點。
你應欣賞對方的一切,欣賞這段愛情帶給你的開心、幸福 。這樣,你便會愛得更愉快,不要只懂埋怨,在雞蛋裡挑骨頭。
寬大是基本的要訣,對愛侶的錯誤,你應以寬大的態度原諒他,因為你是最愛 他的人
開始了不久,可能還未能發現大家的缺點。但日子久了,當發 現了對方一些短處時要多多包容,相處才能融洽。 

Thursday, February 14, 2013

❤ 14.2.13~Happy Valentine's Day~❤



❤ “Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.

❤ “Immature love says: ‘I love you because I need you.’ Mature love says ‘I need you because I love you.’”

❤ “Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.”

❤ “We’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.”

❤ “You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love.”


~~  Happy Valentine's Day ❤ ~~
      情人节快乐 ❤   (。◕‿◕。)