Wise Advice

人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。

The reason that the human the pain, lies in the pursue wrong thing.

如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。
If you do not give yourself the worry, others also never possibly give you the worry. Because of yours innermost feelings, you cannot lay down.

好好的管教你自己，不要管别人。

Well teaches yourself, do not manage others.

你随时要认命，因为你是人。

You momentarily must accept fate, because you are the human.

这个世界本来就是痛苦的，没有例外的。

This world is originally the pain, does not have the exception.

你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。

When you do put down, you won't have worry.

每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。

Each kind of wound, is one kind of maturity.

当你烦恼的时候，你就要告诉你自己，这一切都是假的，你烦恼什么？

When your worry time, you must tell you, all these are false, your worry what?

根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁，如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？

Does not need to turn head looked that who curses you the person is, if has a mad dog to nip your one, you also do want to lie prone instead nip his one?

忌妒别人，不会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人，也不可能减少别人的成就。

Is jealous others, will not increase any advantage for oneself. Is jealous others, is also impossible to reduce others' achievement.

永远不要浪费你的一分一秒，去想任何你不喜欢的人。

Never must waste your one minute one second, thought any you do not like human.

得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。

Cannot obtain the thing, we have thought that he will be happy, that will be because you will understand to him are too few, will not have the time to be together with him in the same place. When one day, after your inquire deeply, you will discover that will not be originally you imagines that happily.

这个世间只有圆滑，没有圆满的。

This in society is smooth, does not have completely.

不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。

Do not guess other people's idea desirably, if you do not have the wisdom and experience's correct judgment, usually will have the mistake.

你要感谢告诉你缺点的人。

You must thank tell you the shortcoming the human.

时间总会过去的，让时间流走你的烦恼吧！

The time general meeting, let the time escape in the past your worry!

不要因为小小的争执，远离了你至亲的好友，也不要因为小小的怨恨，忘记了别人的大恩。

Because of the small dispute, should not be far away from your very close good friend, also do not because of the small hate, forget others' big graciousness.

感谢上苍我所拥有的，感谢上苍我所没有的。

Thanks, thanks the Heaven which the Heaven I have I not to have.

当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念，不肯放下，那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。

When in your hand holds a thing does not put, you can only have this thing, if you are willing to drop, you have the opportunity to choose other. If human's heart dies holds own idea, is not willing to lay down, then his wisdom also can only achieve some kind of degree.

如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天，那就是一种福气了。多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳，多少人在今天已经成了残废，多少人在今天已经失去了自由，多少人在今天已经家破人亡。

If you could safe cross for one day, that was one kind of good fortune. How many people in today already could not see that tomorrow's sun, how many people had already become the disabled person in today, how many people had already lost the freedom in today, how many people were already with one's family broken up and decimated in today.

恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中，不管他有多坏，有多恶。你愈骂他，你的心就被污染了，你要想，他就是你的善知识。

The slander never must stem from ours mouth, no matter he has badly, has wickedly. You scolded him, your heart have been polluted, if you wanted, he to be your friendly knowledge.

你不要常常觉得自己很委曲，你应该要想，他对我这样已经很好了，这就是修行的功夫。

Do not think frequently you are very crooked, you should, if wanted, he to be very like this already good to me, this was the time which led a pious life.

世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是? 磺械执著。万物皆为我所用，但非我所属。

The world originally belongs to you, therefore you have no need to get rid, what must get rid is? Sulphur weapon Rigid. The myriad things all are adopted by us, but I am must respective.

学会用理解的，欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。 The academic society with the understanding, the appreciation judgment looks at opposite party, but is not by the care tube opposite party which thinks oneself infallible.

成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

The mature person does not ask; The intelligent person does not ask the present; The open-minded person will not ask the future.

发光并非太阳的专利，你也可以发光。 The illumination sun's patent, you may also shine by no means.

你可以用爱得到全世界，你也可以用恨失去全世界。

You may use to like obtaining the world, you may also use to hate to lose the world.

爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切，却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。

Loves the strength big enough to may cause the human to forget all, is also actually small to grain of envy grit cannot hold continually.

人总是珍惜未得到的，而遗忘了所拥有的。

The human always treasures has not obtained, but forgot had.

如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊，可能一辈子找不到朋友。

If you want to have the perfect busy friendship, possibly could not find the friend for a lifetime.

如果觉得有意思,不妨转发给你的好朋友

If thinks interestingly, might as well retransmits gives you the good friend